Smart people are awesome and they are naturally attracted to each other. People who doesn't want to be smart, who don't wanna learn something new in this life because they are too busy with work and daily routine are usually boring as hell. So that's why we are attracted to each other. Cause we are genuinely smart (duh!) and we always learn something new to talk about.
- Have a ridiculously good sense of humor.
Ask this for yourself, who ever wants to be in a relationship without being able to smile or laugh? Even glitter-Cullen and gloomy-Bella smile to each other once or twice. And humor is also one of the healthiest cure for every bad things that maybe happens in your relationship. I always make sure that we have a daily dosage of funny or silly conversations, we need them.
- Enjoy the similarity, and embrace the differences
Usually we are most attracted to others who have a similar focus in our lives. That is good, but don't forget that some people also said that we are naturally attracted to individuals who are different from ourselves - and therefore somewhat exciting. The point is, she prefer to buy Blackberry, and i prefer to buy an Android phones, but having two different phones doesn't stop us for texting each other.... err, that's not really a good explanation though :p
- Eat good food
In all of our dates, we like to eat good food anytime, anywhere. I repeat, we really-really love eating. It's not about fancy restaurants or romantic-candle-light-atmosphere. Sometimes, all that matters is just a good food. Because good food makes your tummy happy. And happiness can be started from your tummy. Just like the old quotes said “The discovery of a new dish does more for human happiness than the discovery of a new star.”
- Plan cool things to do in your future.
As i said before, we are smart couple. So it is obvious that we often talk about cool things that we wanna do in the future. And cool plans doesn't always mean big and scary plans. Just find one things that you both really liked, one similar passions that you could do in the future. One of our awesome plan is to make a school of literacy media that encourage people to aware about how media shaped and affect our life. Sounds weird? Well for me those sounds cool enough.
- Have a serious and adult-like discussion once or twice.
Laughable stories are cool. But in the other hand, nobody likes to talk about funny things all the time. Sometimes, you have to change the topics and talk about serious and important stuff like both of your future plan, or maybe philosophy, education, politics, the way of life, financial matters, or whatever things that adults usually talks about. People might find us strange because we talk about "heavy topics" while we going on a dates. But that is not the case for us. We called it our "daily enlightenment". We find it fun and enjoyable, we really do.
- The last tips for today, is just don't stop being awesome.
Just because we are awesome couple doesn't mean our relationship is always happy-go-lucky and never had a fight or hard times. But if you really do care of each other, the power of awesomeness will get you back together, and you'll grow stronger than before. As long as deep in your heart, you believe that you've find the right people to be at your side, in the awesome and in the not-really-awesome times. True story.
The text above are copyrighted by Detta Rahmawan and Aprizya Fehmita Mubin.
- Have a ridiculously good sense of humor.
Ask this for yourself, who ever wants to be in a relationship without being able to smile or laugh? Even glitter-Cullen and gloomy-Bella smile to each other once or twice. And humor is also one of the healthiest cure for every bad things that maybe happens in your relationship. I always make sure that we have a daily dosage of funny or silly conversations, we need them.
- Enjoy the similarity, and embrace the differences
Usually we are most attracted to others who have a similar focus in our lives. That is good, but don't forget that some people also said that we are naturally attracted to individuals who are different from ourselves - and therefore somewhat exciting. The point is, she prefer to buy Blackberry, and i prefer to buy an Android phones, but having two different phones doesn't stop us for texting each other.... err, that's not really a good explanation though :p
- Eat good food
In all of our dates, we like to eat good food anytime, anywhere. I repeat, we really-really love eating. It's not about fancy restaurants or romantic-candle-light-atmosphere. Sometimes, all that matters is just a good food. Because good food makes your tummy happy. And happiness can be started from your tummy. Just like the old quotes said “The discovery of a new dish does more for human happiness than the discovery of a new star.”
- Plan cool things to do in your future.As i said before, we are smart couple. So it is obvious that we often talk about cool things that we wanna do in the future. And cool plans doesn't always mean big and scary plans. Just find one things that you both really liked, one similar passions that you could do in the future. One of our awesome plan is to make a school of literacy media that encourage people to aware about how media shaped and affect our life. Sounds weird? Well for me those sounds cool enough.
- Have a serious and adult-like discussion once or twice.
Laughable stories are cool. But in the other hand, nobody likes to talk about funny things all the time. Sometimes, you have to change the topics and talk about serious and important stuff like both of your future plan, or maybe philosophy, education, politics, the way of life, financial matters, or whatever things that adults usually talks about. People might find us strange because we talk about "heavy topics" while we going on a dates. But that is not the case for us. We called it our "daily enlightenment". We find it fun and enjoyable, we really do.
- The last tips for today, is just don't stop being awesome.
Just because we are awesome couple doesn't mean our relationship is always happy-go-lucky and never had a fight or hard times. But if you really do care of each other, the power of awesomeness will get you back together, and you'll grow stronger than before. As long as deep in your heart, you believe that you've find the right people to be at your side, in the awesome and in the not-really-awesome times. True story.
The text above are copyrighted by Detta Rahmawan and Aprizya Fehmita Mubin.
Another year has gone by. Another years yet to come.
9 August 2011 - Happy 3rd Anniversary to us :)
9 August 2011 - Happy 3rd Anniversary to us :)
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